The following photos and stories were donated to the Genocide Memorial Museum by relatives who survived the genocide. The photos of the children often do not match the age of the child when they were killed... This is because when their family members fled from their homes, they could only take what they could carry. Let them not be forgotten. Never again.
Stacy's Rwandan Adventures
Thursday, February 26, 2015
Child Victims of the Rwandan Genocide
The following photos and stories were donated to the Genocide Memorial Museum by relatives who survived the genocide. The photos of the children often do not match the age of the child when they were killed... This is because when their family members fled from their homes, they could only take what they could carry. Let them not be forgotten. Never again.
Monday, February 2, 2015
Forgive But Never Forget… The Rwandan Genocide
The Rwandan Genocide was one of the most
horrific events in human history. 1 million people were murdered in cold blood
within a mere 100 days. Their assassins were not soldiers, but they were
neighbors, teachers, and friends. The weapons used were machetes, bare hands,
and baseball bats with nails sticking out of the tip at different angles. While
some firearms were used, there were no bombs, no air raids, and no warning
shots.
Instead, the perpetrators aimed to inflict as much pain and torture on their victims before ultimately killing them. Achilles tendons were slit so people were unable to run away, and then they were thrown down pit latrines (primitive outhouses) so that they would either drown in shit or slowly bleed to death. These were not trained soldiers meeting on a battlefield; these were home invaders murdering parents in front of children and husbands in front of wives. Babies’ skulls were smashed into walls. Women were raped by known HIV-positive men, before their genitals were later mutilated beyond recognition. Many of the survivors had been mutilated in one way or another, often by having their fingers cut off at the knuckles.
Pure evil was unleashed upon this beautiful land, filled with banana, avocado, and palm trees.
Instead, the perpetrators aimed to inflict as much pain and torture on their victims before ultimately killing them. Achilles tendons were slit so people were unable to run away, and then they were thrown down pit latrines (primitive outhouses) so that they would either drown in shit or slowly bleed to death. These were not trained soldiers meeting on a battlefield; these were home invaders murdering parents in front of children and husbands in front of wives. Babies’ skulls were smashed into walls. Women were raped by known HIV-positive men, before their genitals were later mutilated beyond recognition. Many of the survivors had been mutilated in one way or another, often by having their fingers cut off at the knuckles.
Pure evil was unleashed upon this beautiful land, filled with banana, avocado, and palm trees.
HISTORY
& CAUSES:
During its Pre-colonial era, Rwanda was
once one of the most peaceful nations on the African continent, but a myriad of
factors had mounted, and when they failed to be addressed, spun out of control.
The French-speaking Belgians who colonized Rwanda deliberately chose to favor
the Tutsi minority ethnic group, as they needed some locals to help the
colonizers keep control over the masses. The Tutsi were also favored because
they tended to have lighter skin and smaller noses.
The single most incendiary document leading up to the genocide was the 1990 publication of “The Hutu 10 Commandments”, by Kuboza Kangura.
The single most incendiary document leading up to the genocide was the 1990 publication of “The Hutu 10 Commandments”, by Kuboza Kangura.
Over the next 4 years, this hateful message gained popularity and support, as the Hutu majority continued to feel mistreated and repressed by the Tutsi, who had access and opportunity to the best jobs. The Rwandan President at the time, President Habyarimana, shared the views of the extremist Hutus.
INSTANT
FULL BLOWN GENOCIDE:
The Radio Television Libre des Mille
Collines incited hatred with their highly inflammatory messages and instructed
Hutu to exterminate people they considered to be “cockroaches” (all Tutsi and
Tutsi-sympathizing Hutus). It was kill or be killed for every Hutu. When this
radio station announced the attack, the change was instant. Roadblocks were
constructed (spikes on roads, guarded by armed monitors), lists of Tusti and
their addresses were released, and extremist Hutu began going from house to
house in groups (this “mob mentality” escalated the violence and minimized the
possibility of any one Hutu showing sympathy to a friend or relative). Genocide
was instant.
“Rwanda
turned into a nation of brutal, sadistic, merciless killers of innocent victims
overnight.”—quote on a wall in Genocide Memorial Museum, Kigali, Rwanda
The very worst aspect of the Rwandan
genocide was not the fact that these crimes against humanity took place, but
the disastrous apathy of the international community. The lack of response was,
in my personal opinion, appalling.
Shortly after the full-blown genocide
erupted (marked by a call to arms broadcasted on the radio by a Hutu extremist
in April 1994), the UN quickly and efficiently sent in troops to evacuate all
of the expats (Americans, Brits, and other white foreigners). Many expats were
devastated to leave their Rwandan friends behind, knowing they were probably
leaving them to die, but they agreed to leave to save their own lives. The
number of troops the UN sent in would have been more than sufficient to put a
stop to the violence right then and there, but they were under strict orders
not to intervene. Even after the expats had been rescued and returned to
safely, the UN could have authorized their officers to act, but they chose not
to. The only international organization that refused to evacuate and stayed
operational during the genocide was the International Red Cross.
SURVIVAL
STORIES:
A Hutu man, who feared the Tutsi would
attack the Hutu as tensions were building up, dug trenches on his land in case
he needed to hide and protect his family. Instead, when the Hutu extremists
attacked the Tutsi, this Hutu man provided safety to 11 Tutsi from their Hutu
persecutors. Once the people were safely tucked deep into the trenches, he
strategically placed wooden crates over them. He covered the wooden crates with
large banana leaves, followed by piles of dirt with seedlings planted in them.
The man’s daughter delivered food to them by carrying it out in a dustpan, so
as not to raise suspicion. All 11 Tutsi survived the 100 days of violence
throughout the country.
Tutsi people often sought
protection/safety/salvation in churches and mosques. Although some of the
largest-scale massacres took place on sacred ground, many of the assailants
were still very religious and/or superstitious, which saved the lives of some.
AFTERMATH:
The International Court Tribunal for Rwanda
(ICTR), which took place in Arusha, Tanzania, only prosecuted high-level
organizers of the genocide. Over the past 20 years, only 75 cases have been
tried, with 12 acquittals, and 16 guilty verdicts still pending appeal.
*It seems fitting that I am listening to
“The General” by Dispatch as I write this. I have my iPod on shuffle and it just
happened to come up. Here are the lyrics to the chorus:
“I have seen the others
and I have discovered
that this fight is not worth fighting.
And I’ve seen their mothers
and I will no other
to follow me where I am going.
So, take a shower, shine your shoes,
you’ve got no time to lose.
You are young and you must be living.
Go now you are forgiven.”
Friday, January 23, 2015
Beauty, even when learning about Agony
I just went through the Genocide Memorial Museum. I had been to the café there for a meeting, but today I had the chance to go through it in
its entirety. I have so much to say about the Genocide Memorial Museum, but for now I just want to share something I saw there that was beautiful.
Water flows out of the "Garden of Unity" and drops down a waterfall into the Garden of Division, which symbolizes the fall of Rwandan society.
The incoming water disrupts the tranquility of the otherwise tranquil pond in the center of the garden.
The pond has a spastic random shape to it, symbolizing the chaos that the genocide threw Rwanda into.
Several statues are positioned around the pond, each looking away from those around them, representing division.
Beautiful palm trees surround the pond, symbolizing the beauty of Rwanda despite the evil and chaos occurring within it.
Finally, the seating in this garden is all separate and individual, to emphasize the importance of taking personal responsibility for reflection. It was beautiful.
The part of the museum that most impressed me was walking
through the memorial gardens. My favorite of the gardens was the "Garden
of Division", which sits between the "Garden of Unity" and the
"Garden of Reconciliation.
Water flows out of the "Garden of Unity" and drops down a waterfall into the Garden of Division, which symbolizes the fall of Rwandan society.
The incoming water disrupts the tranquility of the otherwise tranquil pond in the center of the garden.
The pond has a spastic random shape to it, symbolizing the chaos that the genocide threw Rwanda into.
Several statues are positioned around the pond, each looking away from those around them, representing division.
Beautiful palm trees surround the pond, symbolizing the beauty of Rwanda despite the evil and chaos occurring within it.
Finally, the seating in this garden is all separate and individual, to emphasize the importance of taking personal responsibility for reflection. It was beautiful.
Over Before it Began... and then it Began Again!
I'm going to be candid here about why I am transitioning from a job in Rwanda to a new position in Rwanda.
I lived in Kenya for 6 months (2 years ago) and have been
seeking another job in Africa (paid in USD) and in my field (I have a Master's
degree in Public Health and Preventative Medicine) on and off since... I
recently got out of a serious relationship and decided it was time to make it
happen. So, I applied for (and landed) a 1-year job as a Program Manager for an
organization in Rwanda that uses a sport for development model to promote
gender equity through coed sports for youth. The organization is amazing,
Rwandans are awesome, and the place was perfect... however, my boss: not so
awesome. She flew over with me for the first 11 days here, but I was really
sick the first week so I didn't exactly "shine". Then she decided
that she wants someone with a lot of experience in "sport for
development" (which is new to me, but I was excited about it). She said I
was a great person and admitted that I had done nothing wrong, but said she
thinks my background in Public Health is not going to be a good fit with her
organization.
The weird thing is, she didn't think it was a big deal that I
had packed up my life into 2 suitcases and planned on working really hard for
her organization for a year (or at least a month, so she could see what I could
do). She comes from a very wealthy family and it didn't occur to her that it
would be a big deal to pull the rug out from under me like that. I never
misrepresented myself. She knew all along that I had never worked in sport for
development or had any specific training on it before this job opportunity. She
says she didn’t realize how important it was until we got here.
So, after only 11 days (though I have been preparing for this
for the past 3 months), my boss told me she was "letting me go" right
before getting on a plane to go back to the US.
She later emailed me a to-do list from the plane, reminding me that she
had already paid me through the end of January and owed her allegiance.
At first, I was devastated and thought I was in a terrible
situation, but then I realized I am exactly where I want to be. I have an
incomprehensible love for everything African.
Nothing brings me more joy than giving high fives to little African children in rural villages and letting them play with my hair. If Peter Pan ever asks me what my “happy thought” is, that would be it. I’d be flying high with a little pixie dust! But I digress…
Nothing brings me more joy than giving high fives to little African children in rural villages and letting them play with my hair. If Peter Pan ever asks me what my “happy thought” is, that would be it. I’d be flying high with a little pixie dust! But I digress…
So, I decided to use some of my savings to stay longer and
arranged to volunteer at a local preschool until I could land a paid job
(again, preferably in Public Health with an international organization that
could still pay me in USD).
To my pleasant surprise, the day after I got let go, I was
contacted by an organization my friend had sent my resume to! It is an
international org that empowers young women through a school-based program,
which aims to prevent rape and domestic violence. It is an extension of a
program called “No Means No Worldwide” (NMNWW) which is based in Kenya, but has
recently started working in Malawi as well.
They have an amazing twice-annual training that starts this
Monday (the 26th) and they asked me to get there as soon as I could.
I've booked a flight (I leave first thing tomorrow morning) and I agreed to a
one-month trial to make sure I am a good fit for this org and this org is a
good fit for me as well. The pay is $515/mo in USD, but the cost of living is
much cheaper and what matters most to be is doing work I am passionate about.
I'm nervous and excited!
When I told my former boss this, she asked me to pay her back
some of the January living stipend money she had given me, as I would be
departing Rwanda on the 24th (instead of her proposed date of the 27th). Yes,
she is docking my pay (not pay, as it is not hourly, but docking my $1000 per
month stipend amount) for the mere 3 days, despite the fact that I will
continue to type up notes (from the training I received) to send to her during
this time.
Woah- this is turning into a novel! Sorry so long! Many people
have asked what happened & I didn't know what to say, so I have not said
anything. And now, it's like I have verbal diarrhea or something! Ah! I'll wrap it up:
In sum: Rwanda is great, but the job didn't work out. I have
this awesome opportunity to move to Malawi to work for a different NGO and I'm
going for it! Wish me luck!
Saturday, January 10, 2015
5 days in… my home life & my canine friends
Today is my 5th day in Rwanda (4th
day in Gatagara) and I already love it here. I am living in a guest house owned
by an American family with their own nonprofit org here (it is called City of
Joy and it is a religious preschool). They are currently stateside, but they
will return to Gatagara in early February. They are a family of 4: Todd,
Andria, and their 2 young children (ages 1 and 3). Their house is a few doors
down on the same gated-in compound.
The guest house is very impressive: it is
much bigger than I had anticipated and I feel comfortable here. I just want to
express my gratitude for having such a nice safe place to live. This enables me
to focus on my work and ease my mom’s concerns (you know how mothers worry).
Todd and Andria have 2 “American-ized” dogs
living on the compound. They warned me that the dogs may have become “wild” in
their absence, but the dogs are very affectionate (I think they have missed Todd
& Andria a lot). Before I came, Todd told me that Topie (the female dog) is
more affectionate and friendly and Buddy (the male dog) is a little more
skittish. Todd said Topie comes inside their house occasionally (and during
every loud thunderstorm), but Buddy prefers to hang out on the porch (near
people, but not quite as close to them).
Surprisingly, Buddy has not been shy at
all. In fact, he is quite gregarious. He is always wagging his tail and eager
for me to scratch behind his ears. He does this cute thing where he steps in
front of me and stretches (ironically, a downward dog position, with his front
legs straightened, head down, and butt in the air) to signal he would like me to
pet him. I don’t see Topie as often (one of her back legs has been hurting
her), but she licks my hand and gently requests affection. Last night was the
first time she laid on her back and had me scratch her belly. It is nice to
know they trust me already.
There is a new puppy on the compound as
well. Its name is Puppy (appropriately- LoL!) and it looks like a mini-Buddy.
It lives at the pig farm downhill from the guest house, but it prefers to
follow Buddy around everywhere he goes. Tracy says Buddy used to pick on Topie
playfully, but now the puppy pushes him and nips at his hind legs (Karma, Tracy
says.) The puppy is beautiful, but not well-behaved. It likes to jump up on
people and it gently nips at your hands (luckily, he does this gently, but it can
be annoying sometimes). The one command I would like to teach that puppy is
“down” so my clothes don’t get so dirty.
My next door neighbor Belise is so sweet! She already showed me
the printouts of the ingredients she requires to make her infamous pizza, and
has offered to make it for me. I have offered to teach her some simple card
games (which we will most likely play on the front porch or on the kitchen
table). She is 25 (only a couple of years younger than me), which makes her
great company. She speaks English quite well, but is eager to improve. Plus,
she wears a Denver Broncos beanie/hat every day, which was a great sign,
because I come from a family of hard-core Broncos football fans.
Perhaps my biggest fear before coming here
was loneliness. I prepared to spend a lot of time entertaining myself, but I
don’t think that will be as much of an issue as I had anticipated. When I spoke
on the phone with Todd, he made me feel so welcome to spend time with his
family (which really means a lot to me, as I am very close with my own family).
Sending love to my family & friends
stateside,
Stacy, Buddy, & Topie
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